Tanisha,

Interesting topic, I can't wait to see how the rest of the series unfold. Look forward to more enlightening topics. I am so proud of you.

- Hawanya

I love that men are able to seperate themselves so easily..."mama's baby..daddy's maybe" springs to mind. I wonder when we, as Black folks, became so anti-family? Why is it an issue of the women buggin'out and the men trying desperately to be there for their children? Get your ass outta here..the bottom line is this: If you don't desire the result, use a concrete method!

@rocka so no behind the school yard...just kidding.

@Arety Thank you, I hope you enjoy episode 2.

@Dave Jackson That second to last line ("know where you stand...") should be rule #1. We usually don't find that out until we're in too deep.

@ng Thank you, I appreciate the support.

such a great topic of discussion. and you did a great job of peaking my interest. i'll definitely be letting people know to check you out.

You warm my heart and I know that the subject is close to both of our hearts. I wanna say that we all must be very careful of whom we call our mate, girlfreind, boyfriend,husband or wife. Children change everything including the way you see your mate, how you operate on a daily basis, for the rest of your lives. It shouldn't be taken lightly,I think as much as you can't plan for kids, you should do your best as parents to make sure that their arrival can be handle. Know where you stand in your relationship and if that is something that you really want. Don't waste time in your life and the drama will be at a minimum.

Hey T. good start. Great topic, looking forward to seeing how things develop.
Peace
Arety

Very enlightening, also this confirms that I don't want kids.